FLUMC Lay Leader Update
May 20-22, 2022
Alice Williams and I were talking this week about all things laity. As we were finishing up our call, I told her my plan for this week’s update and the theme I would use for this note. She affirmed my direction, and added “let’s not forget about the shooting in Buffalo.” And I responded, “Yes! You are so right. I’ll tie that in for sure!” I was determined to do this, but every time I thought about Buffalo I got stuck. An hour later, I was sitting in front of my laptop preparing to write this note. And I just could not find words. I decided to stop and come back to it. Two hours later, I still could not find the words. In fact, I am posting this week’s update super late into the weekend because I struggled for almost 24 hours to find the words to write. It took me till about noon on Saturday to figure out what was the cause of my writer’s block - it was unacknowledged sadness.
Sadness is not an emotion I often express in public. I am much more likely to display feelings of joy or anger. I would even admit that I can hold multiple and seemingly opposing emotions at the same time. But for whatever reason, admitting and revealing my own sadness often feels inappropriate. (Don’t worry - my therapy sessions are helping with this!) I am still learning the role of lament in the life of faith. So today, I sat with my sadness, and realized that the cause of my empty page and this delayed update was simply because my sadness needed to be heard. As I began to name the lamentations of my heart, I confessed I was sad (among many emotions) about Buffalo and the continued struggle we have around race in this country. Then came the mourning about the shooting in Dallas and Laguna Woods, CA. Pretty quickly the list of lamentations began to flow freely:
I am sad about violence of all types around the world, especially in Ukraine and Israel/Palestine.
I am sad about the murder of a clergywoman in the North Georgia Conference.
I am sad about the reality of congregations disaffiliating from the UMC.
I am sad for young adults who are struggling with their mental health.
Of many things I am this weekend, I am sad. So I spent time this afternoon holding space for my own sadness. Doing this gave me the words I needed to write this note. And doing this reminded me of how necessary it is for me as a leader to model what it means to be a person of faith who grieves and echoes the Psalmist in praying “How long, oh Lord!” Being sad about the brokenness and dysfunction in our church, our communities and in our world is reasonable, and we as leaders can hold space for those honest responses even as we remain hopeful that God will, through Christ, work all things for our good.
This kind of leadership is not just for the clergy; its for the laity as well. In some respects, a key part of the lay leader’s role is to notice and name the sadness in our congregations and communities so that space can be held, prayers can be lifted, and mercy can be offered. As Jesus said, “Blessed are those who mourn…” Yes, there’s an end to that sentence, and we get there by entering into the space of sadness. This is part of what it means to lead with courage in a season of uncertainty. So I invite you - the laity of the Florida Conference - to be brave enough to reveal the full range of emotions as we labor together for the Gospel. Let us mourn, weep, lament, and acknowledge our own sadness even as we declare through tears that best and most of all - God is with us. Blessed are those who mourn.
Derrick Scott III - Co-Lay Leader of the Florida Conference
Annual Conference 2022
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